Do you find it difficult to release people of their offenses again you?
In 1 John 5:16 we read, “If any man see his brother sin a sin which is not unto death, he shall ask, and he shall give him life for them that sin not unto death. There is a sin unto death: I do not say that he shall pray for it.”
When you see a brother or sister in Christ disobeying the Lord, it can be disheartening. What should you do with the feelings of disillusionment that flood your heart?
FIRST, never allow another person to distract you from your relationship with God. Instead, cling to the promise that He will never fail you, even when others do.
SECOND, pray for the person in the hope that he/she will turn back to Christ. If the individual has done anything to wound you, forgive him/her and refuse to harbor bitterness in your heart toward them.
THIRD, draw comfort from the Holy Spirit. When you are grieved by issues that displease God, remember that He is your greatest source of encouragement and the One who will redeem the situation.
FINALLY, pray for the person who offended or disappointed you and release him/her to the Lord. Your Savior can handle the situation, so don’t allow it to become a stumbling block in your heart.
Prayer thought: “Lord, I pray that __ will acknowledge their offense and turn back to You. Help me forgive them and draw comfort from Your Holy Spirit, amen.”